We all have been raised or heard the saying " if someone else can do it, so can you". It is a encouraging statement but it is a false sense of security. Just because someone else made it or making it does not mean you can as well in that way.
Our lives are designed for us. If I have something or in a position of accomplishment, does not mean that you qualify for that position. That is not your area. There are things and accomplishments that are meant for you.
We have the power to choose and we can alter that pattern by making choices that was not in the original plan. When we make these negative alterations we alter our future plans. It's like if we can go back and change something in our past. If we could then we would alter our present and future life. If there is something in out past that we wish we would have done differently...we can't. What is done is done. All we can do is learn from it and not repeat it. We have an idea of what doing something negative in our lives will produce.
We also have done or doing things in our lives that will forever be written in stone. It can not be erased or forgiven. We knew the consequence and we gambled with it anyway. Now it is a part of our legacy.
I make this statement because I was in a conversation with a friend and he asked me who dick did I suck to not have to work for the rest of my life? How did I get to retire at the age of 40 years old? I did not wanna see this as jealous or hating on my life. I told him that is the fabric of my life. It was design for me to start working at age 15 and have continue work until the age of 40. It was my life's plan to also be able to maintain my youthful look at age 46.
Listen, just because someone else life looks so gifted does not mean that you are going to have the same life. That is that man's life. I would like to be Mayor of Atlanta but my life is not design for that area. I would like to be rich but my life was not made up to have old money in the family to be passed down to me.
This is my life. I did not order this but I do appreciate it. And another thing. Just because you are on the outside looking in does not mean that all that glitters is gold. You really do not know what is going on in my life. It could be hell and I just know how to cover it up and keep it private. I have imperfections that I struggle with everyday. I wish that I was built in a certain way. I wish that I had a big dick...a uncut dick. Hell, I wish I could take dick for more then three minutes on a good fuck.
There is so much to me than meets the eye. I wish for these things but I am content with what I have because I do not wanna curse myself and seem ungrateful and that what I have be taken away.
So, you can not have what others have. You can have that which is meant for you. That type of attitude is called Covetousness...AN UNREASONABLE DESIRE FOR WHAT WE DO NOT POSSESS.
Do not give up your plot in life because you desire to be like someone else. Accept what you have and keep on living. You do not know how tomorrow is design for your future. Your life is not that awful for you to craft your own demise.
(I do not have a post picture for this. This came from my soul).
2 comments:
Your post is what I like about blogging. People can learn from each other's experiences. Certainly we're more alike than we give credit, but we're shaped by our unique experiences. We're in some ways a prisoner of our our own experiences and can only see the world from our own perspective except in our imaginations. Having the stories of other's in my head showing me what it's like to be someone else is helpful. And truthfully none of us knows what we're really capable of. That's why we tell that lie that if he you can too. Because it's possible. It's also possible you'll be able to do something not one has ever dreamed of in their wildest dreams. Who knows? Only time will tell.
You said a mouthful bro!
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